When you do this, hold it for a long time watch your partner drop their head. It'll happen stages too. The longer you hold the more your partner will relax into it. They need to trust your hands and know that you're confident. THIS WILL HURT! its a lot of pressure on your finger joints. When it's too much let go and move to relaxation massage to give your hands a break. PRACTICE MORE and your hands will become stronger. This technqiue gets better with practice. | Melt: Massage for Couples

30K views · 603 reactions | The body never lies! Watch your partner's hands and feet, they'll tell you when it's too deep! Most commonly your partner will tense their hands into a fist or curl their toes. Use this a sign to back off and move into relaxation massage. And then start again. It's not necessarily a bad thing. And it's best to talk to your partner to confirm just in case. | Melt: Massage for Couples | Facebook